Advice for all boys :) (I didn’t write this.. I found it online)
Girls do not like guys who constantly lie to impress them. Tell the truth and you’ll never have to worry about getting caught in a lie.
Be protective, but not overprotective. Don’t control her every move, and don’t let her control you.
Notice the little things, like when she gets a haircut, or wears her hair a different way.
Smell nice and keep a clean, smart appearance.
Hold doors for her, old-fashioned courtesy is not dead!
Make her feel like you want to take care of her.
Tell her when you are thinking about her.
surprise her with a little gift every so often.
Make an effort to get along with her friends. Be friendly, but don’t flirt with them. Your girlfriend could easily be hurt by this.
Avoid fights, arguments, and disagreements with her friends!
Always tell her that she is the only girl in your life.
Make sure she always feels good about herself. Many girls are insecure, but simple reassurances (“Your hair looks just fine.”) are often all they need.
Let her make some decisions too, like where to go on a date. If she asks you to decide, do so.
Treat her well. Don’t ignore her. Respect the fact that girls need to hang out with their friends.
Compliment her often so that she knows that you’re still interested in her.
Tell her she looks beautiful when she’s clearly made an effort (especially for special functions like the prom).
Try to cheer her up when she’s sad about little things. For emotions like grief, it’s best to simply be there for her.
Don’t try to make her jealous, or suggest that she may be jealous.
Bring her some of her favorite flowers.
Don’t tell her you think other girls are hot, even if she asks your opinion.
Let her play with your hair, even if she’s messing it up.
Don’t be jealous about her exes. She’s with you, not with them.
In the same way, don’t make her jealous of your exes. Keep conversations about them to an absolute minimum.
Don’t embarrass her.
Don’t pressure her.
Don’t tease her about her clothes.
Never call her fat, even if she’s obese.
Don’t tell her to get off your lap. Let your leg fall asleep.
Listen to her music before you decide you don’t like it, even if it’s a genre you don’t like. If after some time you still don’t like it, try and nicely tell her you have other interests. Share your music with her.
Listen to her speak, even if the topic is boring. After a bit, gently change the subject.
Don’t let your friends pick on her. Stick up for her, even if they are only kidding!
“No” always means no. Even when you think it doesn’t.
If she offers to pay for lunch, let her and don’t make it a big deal. Equality is important.
Try to do something you both love to do, so that relationships don’t seem a drag to you.
Tell her you’ve been thinking about her all day.
Kiss her on the forehead and on top of her head, especially when she is feeling down, and always say a simple ‘I love you’. It will make her happy. (NOTE: See tip on saying “I love you”).
- Make her something. A paper flower, an artsy heart, something creative that reflects your personality, so whenever she looks at it she’ll think of you and smile.
Remember that no matter who, no matter when, any guy has a chance to sweep any woman off her feet. No woman wakes up saying, “God, I hope I don’t get swept off my feet today!” You just have to get on the right path.
If you are sitting down somewhere like the park or if you are leaning up against something, usually the girl will eventually become comfortable and lean/lay on you. If she lays on you with her stomach facing up, you should take one of her hands and pull it to her opposite side…do the same with the other.
If you are laying out under the stars MAKE SURE YOU HOLD HER HAND!!!!! And if she says something like, “I’m cold,” make sure you move closer to her, or offer your jacket.
When watching a movie, make sure you are sitting with her.
When she is venting about something (whether its about her life or about your relationship) don’t turn it into something about you. She’s just telling you her feelings.
Don’t be afraid of kissing her in public if she wants to.
Tell her bedtime stories.
MAKE THE FIRST MOVE BECAUSE SHE’S EXPECTING YOU TO.
Talk about your future with her, if it’s what you both want.
Answer her phone calls…and don’t complain that she woke you up.